As society becomes more open and accepting of different sexual practices, many people have started exploring and enjoying full on anal intercourse. Although, people all around the world have some taboos against anal stimulation, it doesn’t stop many from trying it out. Studies show that anywhere from 20% to 50% of the population has given it a shot, however, most people say they do it because it feels good, they were curious, or they wanted to make their partner happy (Robboy, C. n.d.). Additionally, women that have engaged in anal sex, found that it produces more intense and pleasurable orgasms versus vaginal sex.
It has been proven that our bodies are designed to enjoy different types of sexual stimulation and when it comes to anal sex, the pudendal nerve is responsible for that orgasmic anal enjoyment. The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings, making it a highly erogenous zone. For women, the pudendal nerve is responsible for carrying sensations to your clitoris, labia and vagina. Anal sex is the penetration of the anus with a penis, sex toy, or fingers but if you are a female, stimulating the pudendal nerve can also lead to arousal, of the G-spot and A-spot. These areas are sensitive and contributing factors that lead to intense sexual pleasure, when properly stimulated. By stimulating this nerve, you can activate nearby erogenous zones that can enhance your sexual pleasure and help you achieve orgasm. So, when someone is anally stimulated, those muscles start to contract in a very satisfying and rhythmic way.
Moreover, anal sex can be a great way to explore new sensations and add variety to one’s sex life. The anus is a tight and muscular opening, which can create a unique and intense sensation for both partners thus creating a feeling of fullness and pressure that can be highly stimulating. Anal sex can also be a form of intimacy and trust-building between partners. The act requires a high level of communication, trust, and patience, as the anus is a delicate area that needs to be approached with care. Another aspect of anal sex that can be pleasurable for both partners is the psychological aspect. For the receptive partner, the act of being penetrated anally can create a feeling of vulnerability and surrender, which can be highly arousing. On the other hand, the penetrative partner may experience a sense of dominance and control, which can also be a turn-on. However, it is important to note that anal sex may not be pleasurable for everyone. It is a personal preference, and some people may find it uncomfortable or even painful. This is why communication and consent are crucial when engaging in any sexual activity. 
One key tip for successful anal intercourse is to start slow. Although, the anus is self-lubricating, making it a natural and safe option for those who may have allergies or sensitivities to certain lubricants. But, instead of immediately thrusting the penis into the anus, it can be helpful to just put the tip in at first and let the woman move her body towards it at her own pace. This not only allows her to control the depth and speed of penetration, but it also gives her time to adjust to the sensation and stretch herself gradually.
Being too quick or impatient with the insertion process is the main reason why women may have a painful experience and give up on anal sex altogether. The anus is a sensitive area, and forcing it to accommodate a penis too quickly can result in discomfort or even injury. By letting her drive the pace of insertion, she can slowly adjust her rectum to stretch herself and avoid any unnecessary pain or discomfort. Once the penis is inside, it is essential to stay inside. The anus tends to go back to its natural tightness very quickly, so if the penis comes all the way out again, it may need to go through the slow insertion process again. This can be frustrating and uncomfortable for both partners, so it is crucial to maintain a steady and consistent rhythm.
Anal sex is a sexual act that can bring about a multitude of pleasures for both partners, which is a unique and intimate form of sexual expression that should not be dismissed or stigmatized. Full anal intercourse can be a pleasurable experience for both partners, but it requires patience, communication, and a deep understanding of each other’s needs. Remember to always listen to each other and respect each other’s boundaries to ensure a safe and pleasurable experience. So, let go of any preconceived notions and consider exploring the pleasures of anal sex, with your partner.
References
(Robboy, C. A. n.d.). https://www.thecenterforgrowth.com/tips/exploring-the-pleasures-of-anal-sex-and-stimulation. The Center for Growth; Psychological Counseling, Therapy and Support Groups-“Exploring the Pleasures of Anal Sex and Stimulation“. .
